Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.
Have you ever wanted to give up everything?
(and maybe you even did? What was the level of your determination?)
Unfortunately, it happens to everyone sooner or later. The difference between those who are successful and those who consider themselves losers lies in their ability to never give up. What makes some people 'special' is not the ease with which they make money nor their house or the car they drive. What makes people stand out is resilience, the ability to never give up. The strength to find in every mistake a life lesson for the next attempt. And this, besides depending on a strong determination, also depends on your motivation or dream that you can no longer give up.
THE PATH IS NOT THAT EASY
You need to be determined.
I happened to find myself throwing in the towel in the middle of a project. Too much stress, too little progress, time passing. Everything seemed insurmountable. What had previously started with enthusiasm was turning into a nightmare.
I am talking about when I started working on my website. The road had soon seemed winding. I had started to build up all the excuses to stop working on it. I had planned to find another interest. I had begun to tell myself that it was better to work on something else and that I was incapable.
There were too many gurus on the web who could deal with the subject better than I could. However, small signs, which I learned not to consider coincidences, made me think of how much satisfaction I had felt in raising the morale of my children, friends, acquaintances or, simply, those who had placed more trust in me than I had.
o I took heart and kept moving on. As Simon Sinek says, we are in an 'infinite game'. So why stop playing?
GREAT TARGETS
(and how to find them)
It is easy to give excuses and give up. This happens when your goal is not important enough for you. When your goal is not bright, nor colourful, nor, least of all, full of joy. It does not fill you up enough and you simply believe that it is not within your reach. Giving up is easy and the moment you set yourself a goal and, at the same time, think of a possible way out, you are giving yourself excuses. You have assigned yourself a small probability of failure. You have told yourself that the day you struggle to overcome one of the thousand hiccups you can always turn back. At that moment, without admitting it, you have given yourself the right to fail.
In this case, I am sorry to say, you have to start from the beginning. You have to start again by identifying your goals in the best possible way. Those goals must become a reason for living. You have to accept to risk and give everything for their achievement. Get out of your confort zone.Remember, though: goals cannot about yourself or your personal pleasure but must also benefit other people. When setting up these goals, therefore, remember to follow a correct structure for defining them.
To learn how to set your OBJECTIVES you can subscribe or send an e-mail. I will send you the document with some simple rules for working on it. Remember though: you have to be 100% committed because you will have to do the dirty work YOU! There are no excuses: don't start if your goals are not what you really dream of.
